Especially as the holidays are quickly arriving…It can be a challenge to navigate spending quality time with family and also getting your well deserved rest and relaxation in! Our loved ones sometimes have their own thoughts around how much time we spend with them, what kind of chores they want us to do, and how we spend our time at home. It is important to reflect upon what you have ‘on your plate’, so that you can manage your time in the best way possible.

Time management is about prioritizing and organizing tasks to make the best use of each day. Many studies show that when practiced intentionally, it helps us accomplish more, reduces stress, and improves well-being. Effective time management can boost self-esteem and help create a positive cycle of productivity and satisfaction. Rather than just tracking hours, it’s about focusing time and energy on what’s important. The process starts with raising awareness of your own tendencies and experimenting with what works best for you

Balance is not merely a destination but a natural state that exists within the present moment.  By embracing the teachings of TCM, we can cultivate this natural state within us and the universe and enhance our well-being.  As we become more aware of ourselves and our surroundings, we align with the natural rhythms of life.  

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During the holidays, family expectations can be a challenge to manage.  We all wish and hope that our family is as synergized  and drama free as we imagine and we expect that our spouses, partners ,and kids can assimilate as smoothly as possible with their grandparents, cousins and in-laws.  But what if they don’t or worse, what if our family gets chaotic?  

It’s important to understand that supporting each others’ endeavors whether they are big or small can strengthen your connection as well as individual personal growth.

While anxiety is commonly associated with mental and emotional states, research shows that our physical well-being plays a significant role in managing it. Healthy living practices can support both your body and mind, providing a solid foundation for emotional regulation.

Modern life can leave us in positions that pull our heads and shoulders forward, creating discomfort in our neck, back, and shoulders. But don’t worry! There are simple ways to counteract this.

When a child’s emotions escalate, it’s natural to want to step in and fix things immediately. However, understanding the underlying mechanisms of overwhelm can provide clarity and guide you in supporting your child through these challenging moments.

Menopause is a transformative phase in a woman’s life, marking the end of her reproductive years and bringing a cascade of physical and emotional changes.  Our ovaries are reaching the final chapter of their life cycle.  Despite its significance, the reality of menopausal support and care often reveals a mix of challenges and opportunities for empowerment.

In our tech-driven world, we spend a lot of time looking down, which can lead to what’s known as “forward head posture.” This posture causes the muscles in the front of your neck and shoulders to tighten and the muscles in the back of your neck and upper back to overwork. Over time, this imbalance can lead to discomfort and even pain.

Importantly, trauma-informed massage does not involve reliving or discussing past traumatic events. Instead, it focuses on gently and respectfully tracking sensations in the body as tension is released. This ensures that tension is not released too aggressively, which could cause the body to revert to its protective holding pattern.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is helpful for managing anxiety at the start of a high school or college year in many ways!

As a parent, one needs to be ready to face all kinds of challenges. Like receiving a serious or sudden news regarding your child’s health, which can be destabilising in many ways. So, here’s a quick checklist of how you can responsibly handle your child’s health crisis and care for them without compromising your own emotional and mental well-being.

In the anticipated days of the coming Fall months as new schedules arrive, we ask ourselves how do we stay intentionally connected with one another?

Picture this: you and your partner are in a disagreement, and your partner says or does something that suddenly cascades you into a different space. Rather than feeling minor frustration or annoyance, your emotions suddenly turn a sharp corner. It's like these emotions are pushing you into a deep dark hole and whatever your partner is saying, you can't hear anymore.    It's likely that you (and maybe your partner) are feeling flooded.

Trying to convince a child that they should not be afraid does not ease anxiety, but rather continues to fuel it. So, if you shouldn’t ease your child’s anxiety in this way, what can you do to support your child with their worries and fears through this season?

Signs of unforgiveness can include negative emotions when thinking about the person or event, bursts of anger disproportionate to the situation, feelings of depression or anxiety, inability to trust, and overgeneralization.

Every mom experiences postpartum uniquely, and some may have challenges related to executive functioning, sensory sensitivities emotional regulation and parenting style. If you're navigating these challenges, I want to reassure you that your feelings and struggles are valid and not uncommon.

If you are looking to get help through counselling, RMT or acupuncture in Langley or Surrey and need direct billing options, we may be able to help. There are a number of providers that now allow counsellors to access direct billing.